It ain't
over 'til it's over.
Yogi Berra
Please don't let me die
before I die.
Prayer
While there's life, there's hope.
Cicero
The above three quotes share common
messages:
(1) Nourish hope in the face of grim
statistics or a bleak outlook, and
(2) Live as fully as possible every day.
Berra's aphorism,
"It
ain't over 'til it's over,"
conjures an image of a batter
stepping up to the plate when all seems lost, and making
a great hit that helps the team come from behind to win
the game. The prayer, " Please
don't let me die before I die," asks
for help in holding onto the hopes of life. Cicero's
words, "While there's life, there's hope." make clear
that the time to give up all hope is after you die. All
three quotes discourage you from giving up all hope when
you still have a chance because when you give up hope,
you forfeit possibility. As long as you live, you can
find and nourish hope for improvement in your
condition. There is always hope.
These three quotes also suggest an
insight about the experience of living: You are just as
alive at the end of your life as you are at the
beginning or in the middle. Berra says it using a
baseball metaphor: the game is just as much in play
during the bottom of the ninth inning as it is during
the first inning. The prayer pleads, in essence, "While
my heart still beats, please don't let me reject the new
person I have become (or can become) since illness or
injury has made it impossible to be the same person I
was before." Put another way, "While my heart still
beats, please don't let me withdraw from life and loved
ones. Please don't let despair steal the on-going
opportunities for sharing, giving, loving, and
enjoying." And, Cicero suggests that you can hope for
more than just cure, or even improvement in your medical
condition. You can hope for emotional or spiritual
comfort and growth. You can hope for more moments of
connection, meaning, joy.