My heart aches whenever someone I care about loses a loved one. I’m always looking for a gift that might bring a bit of comfort, beyond the usual sympathy card with a handwritten note or donation to a worthy cause. Lately, I’ve been gifting a small book that stands apart from most books on grief.
Read moreCorona's Good and Bad News
It’s both good and bad how the evolving Corona story has put the dangers of viral infections center stage. As someone living with immunodeficiency, the good news is that now more people…
Read moreFree eBook on Finding Hope That Heals
Last fall I was invited to write a short e-book on hope that could be read on a mobile device. The task was challenging and exhilarating. Now, the book is available for free downloading. (from the press release)
Read moreMandy Harvey Encourages You to Try
Meet Mandy Harvey, an icon of Healthy Survivorship.
Read moreDoes Purpose Help You Live?
Against the odds, I’m still here. Some people tell me, “It’s because you had a purpose.”
Read moreEmbracing the New Normal for Now
After interviewing me and others, NYTimes health columnist Jane Brody wrote “I now fully understand that a successful life is…a life that rolls with the punches, adapts to changing circumstances, and makes the best of the here and now.” Exactly.
Read moreNo "Right" Thing to Say to Someone With Cancer
NYTimes health columnist Jane Brody interviewed me for a piece on what to say to someone with cancer. The criticisms in the comments section highlight the emotionality and contentiousness of this topic. They also encourage us to reflect on fundamental principles.
Read moreScared of the Tests
Screening tests sometimes scare me. No, not the discomforts. I’m used to needlesticks (ouch) and contrast (gag). Occasionally, I worry that the risks might not be worth the benefits. What’s a Healthy Survivor to do?
Read moreNew Year's Resolutions for Healthy Survivors
When dealing with medical challenges, New Year’s resolutions can help you become a Healthy Survivor. Firm decisions to do—or not do—something from now on helps motivate you to stick to a plan that challenges you in some way. (You don’t resolve to do things that come naturally, right?) Here’s the problem:
Read moreAfter Completing Treatment, Are You Better?
“I’m better.” What does that mean after completing treatment for cancer or other serious illness? It may mean something different than you think.
Read moreBest Children's Grief Books
In the spirit of the winter holidays, I’m highlighting two marvelous children’s grief books. Loss during the season of light and joy is especially painful. You give a great gift when you help families with children who are trying to make sense of such loss.
Read moreSupporting the Healthy Survivors in Your Life
Let’s explore how to support your loved ones with cancer or other medical challenge.
Read moreWhat Should I Give Thanks For This Year?
At our Thanksgiving table this year, each person will share three things for which they are grateful. Oh, no. What am I going to do? How do I choose only three things?
Read moreCountermeasures that Promote Healthy Survivorship
One sentence shouted out to me in an article about how an exercise regimen designed for astraunauts may help mitigate aftereffects in cancer survivors: "Cancer is the only major chronic disease condition in which a comparable countermeasures program is not an aspect of standard management."
Read moreWhat's the Right Way to Celebrate My Cancerversary?
What’s the right way for me to celebrate my cancerversary, the anniversary of the day life changed wattage from BC to AC (After Cancer)?
Read moreDreams and Healthy Survivorship
The epigraph of a children’s book caught my eye: Even during adversity, keep dreaming. My survivorship work focuses on healthy ways to deal with illness, one of which is to find reality-based hopes. Is there a place for dreaming in the pursuit of Healthy Survivorship?
Read moreHow Do You Tell Children You Have Cancer or Other Illness?
Raising children while dealing with your (or your partner’s) illness presents great challenges. One of the first difficult tasks is telling your children.
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