Why should the answer to 'How are you doing?' be the ultimate test of how patients are doing only after treatments fail?
Read moreMeasuring status without scans
"Without scans, how will we know how I'm doing?" For years, she knew the answer by reviewing her test results with her oncologist. After she made the wise—and difficult—decision to stop all anti-cancer chemicals that were causing harm and no longer helping, the testing stopped, too."Without scans, how will we know how I'm doing?" For years, she knew by reviewing her test results with her oncologist. After she made the wise—and difficult—decision to stop all anti-cancer chemicals that were causing harm and no longer helping, the testing stopped, too.
Read moreThe Dunning-Kruger Effect
What does the Dunning-Kruger effect have to do with Healthy Survivorship?
Read moreSurprising Healthy Survivors
"Surprise!" What images and emotions just came to mind? The joyful excitement of celebrations? An unexpected visit from a loved one? Or the distress of an unexpected phone call bringing upsetting news?
Read moreResolutions of a Healthy Survivor
I consider myself a Healthy Survivor. Yet I know I can do better in being my best self and living my best life. My New Year's resolutions provide a jump start to my efforts to get good care and live as fully as possible.
Read moreCancer Screening in Elderly Healthy Survivors
Cancer screening is indicated when you are expected to live long enough to benefit. What's going on when physicians order screening in the elderly whose life expectancy is too short? The conclusion of a recent NYTimes article is clear
Read moreDriving Miss Norma
May I recommend a light, uplifting book about end-of-life? Did I just say “light” to describe a memoir about someone’s journey after declining chemo? Yep.
Read moreSad Holidays
"Busy sidewalks dressed in holiday style. In the air there's a feeling of...sadness. the winter holidays can exacerbate sadness while adjusting to a new diagnosis (first cancer; recurrence; complication).
Read moreHolding the Net
As the caregiver for my elderly mother, I read with interest Merriman's memoir about living through her mother's physical and mental decline. Unlike a guidebook
Read moreAvoiding Regret as a Healthy Survivor
Healthy Survivors minimize the chance of regret--that sad feeling linked to the belief you made a poor decision that led to your predicament.
Read moreNudging Healthy Survivors to Take Their Meds
A NYTimes article addresses an issue essential to Healthy Survivorship: Taking prescriptions properly.
Read moreAn Artist's Lessons on Loss for Healthy Survivors
An essay by an artist who lost her work in the flood caused by Hurricane Harvey offers lessons for Healthy Survivors.
Read moreWhat I Wish I Had Known
Dallas Morning News staffer Mary Dunklin offers 10 tips for patients in her article, What I Wish I Had Known Before My Cancer Diagnosis.
Read moreA Better Name for Survivors' Guilt
Bryan's comment on my Cancer, Love and Guilt post got me thinking again about the term, survivor's guilt. Its focus on guilt adds undeserved shame or regret to an already uncomfortable feeling.
What's a better name for the feeling that arises when you learn someone else died from a condition similar to one you survived? In my search, I examined the feeling. It's a mix of...
Read moreThe Best Decisions are Governed by Values
A man's decision to donate one of his kidneys to a stranger offers Healthy Survivors a provocative insight on decision-making.
Read moreHurricane Harvey and Healthy Survivorship
Fellow Texans are suffering from the wrath of Hurricane Harvey. A few thoughts for those impacted, drawn from my experiences as a cancer survivor:
Read moreRealistically Ever After
In Realistically Ever After, long-term survivor and new blogger Laura Ellington discusses healing humor.
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